Hey ladies, letâs talk about that delightful 3 AM wake-up club. You know the drill: eyes snap open like you just heard a fire alarm, only itâs dead silent. And then...the brain starts its little pre-dawn joyride. Oh, look, thereâs a delightful parade of âremember whenâ moments:
Regret OâClock: First up, the âWhy did I say that on that date five years ago?â or, even better, the âWhat if Iâd done everything differently with my ex?â You may be mid-divorce or way past it, but somehow, that voice just loves a rehash at ungodly hours.
Welcome, Worry Train! Next, our brain decides itâs prime time to worry about everything â from your kidsâ future to whether you remembered to send that email to the dentist. Oh, and letâs not forget the existential curveballs like, âWill I ever find love again?â or âShould I get a cat?â
Mistakes Highlight Reel đŹ: And, if you thought it couldn't get any worse, we get the "Greatest Hits" reel of mistakes. That time you really trusted the wrong person, or maybe even that time you wore white to someoneâs wedding (no judgment here).
Random Fears on the Side: Ever notice how your brain saves the most random fears for 3 AM? Like, âWhat if I accidentally married the next person I date?â or âIs my retirement fund okay?â
The Grand Finale: Just as youâre almost falling back asleep, your brain decides itâs a great time to remind you of that embarrassing moment from 2012...for no reason. A classic brain trick, right?
The best part? By 7 AM, half of it wonât make any sense, but your brain doesnât care. So, hereâs to the magical 3 AM hour, where even the most resilient womanâs confidence goes to die. And if youâre part of this club, remember: youâre not alone, even if weâre all staring at the ceiling in separate bedrooms.
May tonight bring us the sweet, uninterrupted sleep we deserve⌠but in case not, know youâve got a whole sisterhood of bleary-eyed warriors right here with you. đŞâ¨
We've found what helps to calm the farm and quieten that little voice is to learn how to accept your past and become complete with where you now find yourself. It helps with the stress and overthinking.
Have a great night!
Fiona and Sandra x
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