If your current self-image… your current identity… has gotten you this far, then what does it need to change to, in order to get you where you want to go?

THINK ABOUT THIS: In order to get here you had to change at some level, yes?

If we go back to when you were 10 years old… 15… or 20 years old - your self-image was very different, yes?

You had to create a new self-image in order to be able to get where you are today. Often we call that maturing.

So what about creating a new self image for the new journey you're on. A new journey requires a new self image.

Here's the question:

Who are you?

If I was to ask you who you were, what would you say?

By the way, not many people ever ask you this question, true?

So who are you? What would your answer be?

Because your answer instantly reveals your identity.

So for instance, let's look at the following journey…

Let's say North America to Australia. Now if your identity was as a ship, an old sailing ship, and you were working out how long it's going to take you to get from LA to Sydney - and remember, your identity was an old sailing ship - you might easily estimate that the journey could take months.

If you think you are a sailing ship, you'd never think it was possible to cover the distance in 14 hours.

And what I mean is that, if you have the identity a “sailing ship” – meaning, “I'm a certain type of person… that's just me” - you would never think it was possible to reach your goal in 14 hours.

But if were to change your identity to an “aircraft” - it's the same journey… the same distance - but now much more easy to accept that you could reach your goal in 14 hours.

In this example, the aircraft is a better identity to have.

In your life you can make the shift and make the journey much faster if you change your identity. Are you getting this?

What if you were a sailing ship right now, but you didn't realise it? So the slow results you're getting is because you think you're a sailing ship? Which means, it's very slow… can sometimes be enjoyable, but you’re tossed around at sea when it gets stormy.

Other days, you've got some wind in your sails and everything seems beautiful. Oh but here comes another wave and you're down again. Sometimes you're bobbing around and it feels like we're getting no way. Yes?

If so, then maybe you're a sailing ship in your mind. So what do you need to do to become an aircraft? To go faster to go much more easily?

Much more comfortably. Less prone to the weather (the weather being the people around you, the situation around you, the environment).

But if your identity was an aircraft, then you could fly above the weather.

What identity shift do you need to make? Because if you're holding on to the sailing ship, as in “Fiona that's just who I am!”

Well then, you're in for a slow journey.

The truth is I know you can change, and you can create a beautiful new life but you can’t do it if you hold onto what you currently know. If you keep doing the same things you are currently doing, you are going to get the same results.

If you want more, you need to become more and you do this by growing your emotional intelligence.

It’s a step-by-step healing journey and in our SHINE program we hold your hand and walk along side you. Together you will HEAL, GROW Aand become the amazing women you were born to be!

If not now, when are you going to do it? In just 3-months your life could be completely different!

Message me or book a free call if you are ready to invest in yourself and create a new life.

Warmly,

Fiona May ❤️🙏🏼💪🏼💃🏽🎉👍🏻✅