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Rebuilding Relationships with Estranged Children After Divorce

February 11, 20251 min read

"Rebuilding Relationships with Estranged Children After Divorce"

Divorce doesn’t just affect the couple—it can create emotional rifts within the family, including with your children. Rebuilding these relationships requires patience, understanding, and a willingness to heal past wounds.

Why Estrangement Happens

  • Blame and Loyalty Conflicts: Children may feel they need to choose sides, leading to resentment or avoidance.

  • Unresolved Emotions: Your child may be processing anger, sadness, or confusion about the divorce.

  • Communication Breakdowns: A lack of open, honest dialogue can widen the gap.

Steps to Rebuild Connection

  1. Acknowledge Their Feelings: Listen without judgment and validate their emotions, even if they’re difficult to hear.

  2. Take Responsibility: Apologise for any mistakes you made during the divorce or as a parent. This shows humility and accountability.

  3. Rebuild Trust Gradually: Be consistent in your actions and create opportunities for positive, low-pressure interactions.

  4. Address Your Own Emotions: Heal your guilt or defensiveness so you can approach the relationship with clarity and love.

💡 Your Next Step: Strengthen your family bonds and rebuild trust with support.Book a free call with our team or join our 3-Day Reset Your Life and Shine After Divorce event:https://bit.ly/ryl-fs.

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Fiona May

Fiona May Steddy is the founder of Women On Transition. Fiona has coached over 20,000 women to transform their lives and move on after separation of divorce.

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