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Breaking Free from the Fear of Being Alone After Divorce

January 25, 20251 min read

"Breaking Free from the Fear of Being Alone After Divorce"

One of the biggest fears midlife women face after divorce is the fear of being alone. This fear can keep you stuck in unhealthy patterns, prevent you from healing, and even push you toward settling for relationships that don’t serve you.

Why You Fear Being Alone

The fear of loneliness often stems from:

  • Childhood Conditioning: Were you taught that your worth comes from being part of a couple?

  • Societal Expectations: Society often emphasises the importance of marriage, leaving you feeling “less than” if you’re single.

  • Internal Beliefs: You may believe that being alone equals failure or abandonment.

How to Transform Your Relationship with Yourself

  1. Redefine Loneliness: Being alone isn’t the same as being lonely. Use this time to get to know yourself. What do you enjoy? What are your dreams?

  2. Challenge the Belief: Write down what being alone means to you. Is it true, or is it a story you’ve been telling yourself?

  3. Build Self-Connection: Practice spending time with yourself intentionally. Take yourself out for coffee, meditate, or journal about your feelings.

💡 Your Next Step: Break free from the fear of being alone by reprogramming your mindset. Learn more, book a free call, or attend our 3-Day Reset Your Life and Shine After Divorce event here:https://bit.ly/m/Women-On-Transition.

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Fiona May

Fiona May Steddy is the founder of Women On Transition. Fiona has coached over 20,000 women to transform their lives and move on after separation of divorce.

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