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Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners—and How to Stop

January 31, 20251 min read

"Why You Keep Attracting the Wrong Partners—and How to Stop"

After divorce, many women fall into the trap of repeating the same relationship patterns, often ending up with partners who are emotionally unavailable or toxic.

Why It Happens

  • Unhealed Wounds: Are you seeking partners to fill emotional voids left by childhood or your previous marriage?

  • Comfort in Familiarity: Do toxic dynamics feel “normal” because they mirror your past experiences?

  • Belief Systems: Do you believe you don’t deserve better, or that “all the good ones are taken”?

How to Attract Healthy Relationships

  1. Identify the Pattern: Journal about the common traits of your past partners. What similarities do you see?

  2. Heal the Root Cause: Work with a coach to address unresolved emotional wounds that drive these patterns.

  3. Set Clear Standards: Define what you want in a partner and commit to not settling for less.

💡 Your Next Step: Break free from toxic cycles with expert guidance. Learn more, book a free call, or join our 3-Day Reset Your Life and Shine After Divorce event here:https://bit.ly/m/Women-On-Transition.

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Fiona May

Fiona May Steddy is the founder of Women On Transition. Fiona has coached over 20,000 women to transform their lives and move on after separation of divorce.

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