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"Are You Enough?" The Question That Can Change Your Whole Future

December 16, 20252 min read

Dear beautiful lady,

If you’re here reading this, you might be quietly asking yourself a painful question:

“What did I do so wrong that I ended up here… searching for answers online… trying to make sense of what happened?”

Sometimes it’s shame.
Sometimes it’s defeat.
Sometimes it’s that hollow feeling of worthlessness that makes even simple days feel heavy.

And often, underneath it all, is one core belief:

“I was never enough.”
Not beautiful enough. Not smart enough. Not young enough. Not good enough as a wife or a mother.

Let me say this clearly:

These thoughts are incredibly common after separation or divorce. When your world gets shaken, your mind looks for a reason — and too often it blames you.

But here’s the truth that matters most:

What you do with these thoughts will define your future.

So… are you enough?

Even if I told you “yes,” would you believe me?

Let’s gently look at the evidence of how this belief shows up.

  • When someone compliments you, do you say thank you… but secretly feel like you didn’t deserve it?

  • Do you constantly question whether you’re doing a good job — as a mother, a woman, a professional, a human?

  • Do you minimise your wins and explain your success away as luck, timing, or someone else going easy on you?

If any of that resonates, it doesn’t mean you’re broken.
It means your self-worth has been bruised — and it’s asking to be rebuilt.

And I want you to hear this:

The fact that you are here, looking for answers, is a beautiful sign. It means you haven’t given up on yourself. It means a part of you still believes healing is possible.

But the journey back to “I am enough” is not something anyone can do for you.

Not me. Not a new partner. Not your friends. Not time.

Only you can decide to come home to yourself.

What I can do is show you the path — a proven, step-by-step process, with coaching and support, so you don’t have to figure it out alone.

Your Next Steps

1. Attend the RESET Your Life & Shine 3-Day Event
A powerful immersion to rebuild your self-worth, identity, and emotional strength.
👉 https://bit.ly/ryl-fs

2. Book a Coaching Call With Our Team
If you’re ready for personalised guidance and a clear plan forward:
👉 https://link.womenontransition.com/freecall

With love,
Fiona May

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Fiona May

Fiona May Steddy is the founder of Women On Transition. Fiona has coached over 20,000 women to transform their lives and move on after separation of divorce.

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