I once proudly called myself a "strong, independent woman," but honestly, it was exhausting.

Sure, we all want to stand on our own two feet, but the idea of being fiercely independent can feel like a trap. It often leaves us feeling unsupported and isolated, especially when we need connection the most.

That loneliness can be overwhelming. While it may seem safer to rely on no one, this approach only delays the disappointment of missing out on deep, meaningful relationships. And let’s be real—living a life devoid of genuine connection is one of the biggest letdowns we can face.

The irony? When I finally let go of my need to prove my independence, my life began to flourish—regardless of my relationship status.

I learned that my worth wasn’t tied to how self-sufficient I appeared and if I had a man or not. As I embraced vulnerability, I found more support, beauty, opportunities, and even financial growth. Eventually, the right partner entered my life.

Clinging to independence kept me in survival mode—emotionally and financially. It strained my friendships and left me stressed, making me work harder just to stay afloat. I thought that showing I didn’t need anyone was the key to being chosen, but in reality, it only attracted partners who mirrored that same emotional distance.

Healthy interdependency wasn’t even on my radar.

My “independent woman” mindset stemmed from the belief that my needs were a burden, leading me to suppress my emotions. I thought it was better to act like I preferred being alone than to admit I longed for support. I rejected my own needs, thinking they would push people away.

But all that did was attract men who didn’t want to give me what I truly needed—genuine care and connection.

It wasn’t until I started my healing journey that I could open myself up to relationships where my needs were honoured. I began attracting partners who valued my emotions and were eager to create beautiful experiences together.

I want the same for you if that's what you want. Imagine being in a relationship where your partner genuinely cares about your needs and wakes up every day asking how he can support you.

If this resonates with you, I invite you to embark on your own healing journey. Join me in a transformative 3-month program designed specifically for women like you who are ready to live their best life as a single solo or to attract quality partners and build a meaningful connection.

Here’s what you can expect once you’ve done your healing and growth work:

Streamline Your Dating Process: You’ll learn how to quickly identify time-wasters and unhealthy dynamics, focusing only on commitment-minded men who truly deserve your energy.

Attract Like-Minded Men: You’ll become a 4% woman who draws in men who share your ambition, emotional intelligence, and desire for a deep connection.

Unlock Your Confidence: You’ll easily step into your inherent magic as a woman, becoming magnetic and empowered in your dating life.

Develop Healthy Relationship Skills: You’ll gain the tools you need to build a lasting, passionate partnership when you find the right person.

Book a free call with us to learn more about our exclusive Shine Program. Plus, if you need to finance the investment in yourself, you can take advantage of an extended payment plan at just $50 per week! Book a call here.

I’m excited to work with you if you want a partner or not. You must learn to love yourself first and then it is simply a choice you are ready and prepared to make should you wish to date. If you’d like to chat about how we can make that happen, reply to this email and share your story.

You are extraordinary and worthy of love!

Fiona x