If we consciously grow our minds so we challenge our current beliefs, values and the rules we’ve been living by, we learn to upskill and expand what is possible for us. We can come from gratitude, hope and belief in ourselves and our lovability - and this opens the pathway to love.

This is a powerful statement, especially for women navigating the often turbulent waters of divorce. It's a call to action, a reminder that healing is not just about recovering from the pain of the past, but about actively building a brighter future.

I know it's not easy after the trauma of divorce. Trust me, I've been there. But dwelling in victimhood robs us of precious time, time that could be spent on self-discovery, growth, and rediscovering our own strength.

Do you know it is crucial that you heal if you don’t want to have your heart broken again?

* Emotional Freedom: Divorce can leave deep emotional scars. Healing allows us to process the pain, grief, and anger, ultimately leading to emotional freedom and a sense of peace.

* Self-Love and Acceptance: Healing is about recognizing our own worth, embracing our imperfections, and learning to love ourselves unconditionally. This self-love is the foundation for attracting healthy, fulfilling relationships.

* Building Resilience: Divorce can shake our confidence and sense of security. Healing helps us build resilience, allowing us to navigate future challenges with strength and grace.

By focusing on our own inner healing, we create space for new possibilities, new dreams, and new beginnings. We can move forward with clarity and purpose, ready to embrace the future with open hearts.

There are Consequences if we choose not to heal

Our growth stagnates and we stay stuck in the past, spinning our wheels, overthinking, taking one step forward and three back. This prevents us from making real progress, both personally and professionally.

Do you want to attract an unhealthy partner and be in a miserable relationship? If not, unresolved emotional wounds can lead us to repeat patterns of choosing the wrong partner and getting enmeshed in an unhealthy relationship.

We will miss out on opportunities for love, happiness, and personal fulfilment if we are consumed by the pain of the past.

Remember, ladies, we don't have time to waste! Our worth isn't defined by a piece of paper or the actions of another. We are whole and complete just as we are. When we truly love ourselves - flaws and all - that radiant light shines through and attracts the very love we seek.

Your perfect partner will not be in sight until you’ve prepared yourself. When you heal you lift your own level of vibration and consciousness, and you’ll attract into your life a man who values the qualities you possess. When you do your own work first, you will be DISCERNING as to who you allow to love you. By staying present, moving forward and having faith that your person is out there doing the same ensures you can lean back and enjoy the journey.

Healing is a journey, not a destination. It takes 3 months to do our specialised divorce recovery healing work and you’ll change your life forever! Traditional therapies, counselling, medication or just joining support groups or reading self-help books cannot give you all the pieces of the puzzle and will never get you through your divorce feeling whole and complete.

Take the first step towards healing today by booking an obligation-free discovery call with a divorce recovery coach from the Women On Transition Team. You deserve it.

Fiona May x