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Abandoned Inner Child

November 14, 20233 min read

Most people carry inner childhood and abandonment wounds. Even those who came from "good" families...

This causes them to not feel seen, heard or supported. This also manifests into feelings of not being good enough, not being loveable and the belief that what they want isn't available to them.


They also attract partners who are emotionally wounded and unavailable because they bond over their brokenness.


Does this sound familiar. You only have to listen to the little voice in your head and if it says anything remotely negative to you, you have the wounds I'm talking about.


There is an antidote though...As when we validate ourselves from within, by giving our inner child the love and support it needs, we heal this broken template within us.


Being afraid is the baseline emotion for most people and it started in their childhood. They don't feel seen, heard or supported. They are constantly fighting for their survival which really puts them in a loop of chaos for many years.


To move through this we need to understand it. You need to be able to give yourself permission to be loved and validated from within. It takes many years for most to even begin to honour themselves and the truth is, many don't ever get there. Because we are conditioned to neglect and abandon ourselves it becomes a negative cycle...


If you struggle with this feeling, you’re not alone. That doesn’t mean you need to settle for your current situation though. Going on an inner transformational emotional journey allows you to connect with your heart and get out of your head. It allows your beautiful love to radiate from every part of your being.
Your new mantra needs to be “I give myself permission to be loved and validated from within. I am already loved and validated and I am doing the work to fully internalise that."


If you haven't embarked on your personal development journey don't be afraid to start. When we grow our minds and look at the things we have not been wanting to see, it opens us up to all the things we ever knew.
By learning to heal your inner child you get to be the most incredible person you are capable of being. Behind your mask, there is a person who is desperate to come out of hiding and play, and show the world who they really are.

I highly recommend it! It is the most amazing and loving thing you'll ever do for yourself.
Everyone who goes on this journey says that it is life-changing.

The magnificent life that you have always wanted awaits you.

All you have to do is claim it. We’re not saying that it will be easy, but it is possible. Allow us to help you begin on that journey of healing, growth, and love.

Get started by watching our free training.


The greatest triumph comes when you live an extraordinary life. Be Big, Bold and Beautiful!

Sending you ♥️ today and always.

Fiona May

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Fiona May

Fiona May Steddy is the founder of Women On Transition. Fiona has coached over 20,000 women to transform their lives and move on after separation of divorce.

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