Don't Let Your Past Define You: Embrace the Future You Deserve

Hi Ladies,

Are you caught between missing your past relationship and yearning for the life you once knew? It's a common struggle, and I want you to know that it's entirely normal, but it doesn't have to hold you back.

Oftentimes, we cling to our past because it feels safe, familiar, and comfortable. We conveniently forget the less-than-ideal aspects and allow our minds to weave an idealised narrative that represents everything we think we want.

But here's the truth: when you're willing to shatter those limiting beliefs and resist the need for instant gratification, you pave the way for precisely what you desire to enter your life.

Creating the life you want is a daily process, one step at a time. Fortunately, there are ways to expedite this journey and make it less painful. Instead of withdrawing or isolating yourself, you learn, grow, and take the time to rest, allowing you to move forward with grace.

Rest instead of isolation. Rest instead of pulling back. Train your mind to say, "I need to rest now," rather than succumbing to thoughts like, "This isn't working, I'm overwhelmed, I'm giving up, I'll just be single..."

Let's avoid this pitfall and stop you from playing small and selling out on yourself! This is what so many women do, and they end up seeking solace in the wrong places, shrinking, becoming clingy, stagnant, or needy.

Rushing forward, instead of following a proven step-by-step formula while grasping for instant gratification, can wreak havoc on your soul.

This phenomenon is what I call "NEEDY ENERGY," and trust me, it's a massive turn-off for men and a true attraction killer.

The key lies in surrendering to the process, doing the work, and relentless practice. As you persist and improve, the journey transforms from a messy struggle into something natural and beautiful, ultimately delivering the results you crave.

So, how do you shift from where you are now to where you want to be?

You must possess the courage to push through discomfort, understanding that it's entirely okay to "BE" with the yearning for the familiar. But remember, genuine change won't manifest until you undergo a profound transformation.

Out with the old, and in with the new! It requires you to learn new skills and tools that you don't currently know - and once you have that, you commit, practice, refine, and repeat until you attract precisely what you desire. You need to be armed with the tools to grow and maintain a healthy relationship and these are further skills you must learn.

If you choose to grow your mind, every lesson you learn will elevate your consciousness, and move you further towards your goals and getting the results you want.

When you've done core healing and growth work, you'll perceive the world through different lenses.

Your communication will transcend surface-level conversations.

A thirst for life and adventure will consume you.

Trust and gratitude will permeate your being.

You'll believe in yourself and love more profoundly than ever before.

And when you reach that point, you'll attract love, understanding, companionship, nurturing, and an abundance of joy and happiness because LIKE ATTRACTS LIKE.

Take a moment today to reflect on where you stand, what you truly desire, and how embracing your inner light can lead you to shine brilliantly. You already possess everything a beautiful soul and you can learn the skills you haven't been taught. You deserve to be happy so I'd encourage you to embrace the desire to be extraordinary, expand your mind and grow your emotional intelligence so you can become the very best version of yourself!

Sometimes, we must step aside to let ourselves move forward. I assure you, you can do it – you will do it – and you unequivocally deserve to have exactly what you want!

Life grants us a single chance, and I implore you to seize it fully and embrace the love.

If you ever need a helping hand, remember that when we allow others to support us, we can create incredible things together. The impact you'll make and the ripple effect of your empowerment will touch everyone around you.

With unwavering support,

Fiona May
WOMEN ON TRANSITION

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