Free Quiz for Women
Discover Your Love Language
How to understand yourself and make love work for you — whether you're healing from a relationship, rebuilding new ones, or simply learning to love yourself more deeply.
This quiz is based on Dr Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages framework, reframed for women navigating life on their own terms.
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Your Love Language Is
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Well done.
You just did something
most people never do.
You sat with the questions, you were honest with yourself, and you discovered how you are truly wired for love.
A message from Fiona May and Sandra LeeWe want to pause for a moment and acknowledge what you just did.
Taking this quiz, sitting with the questions honestly, and being willing to look at how you experience love — that takes more courage than most people realise.
A lot of women go through life never asking these questions. They stay in patterns that hurt them, give endlessly to others, and quietly wonder why they never feel quite filled up.
You chose differently today. And we think that says a lot about who you are.
Your love language result is your starting point — not a label, not a limitation. It is the beginning of understanding yourself in a way that can genuinely change everything: your relationships, your communication, your confidence, and your next chapter.
We have spent over a decade working with women like you — midlife women navigating separation, divorce, loss, and the enormous task of rebuilding a life. And in all that time, one thing has never changed:
The women who go deepest into understanding themselves are the ones who create the most extraordinary second chapters.
We want that for you.
Warmly, Fiona May and Sandra Lee x
Women On Transition
From Fiona May and Sandra Lee
Fiona May and Sandra Lee created Women On Transition to help women understand themselves more deeply, rebuild after life changes and create healthier, more fulfilling relationships and futures.
Knowing your love language is a beautiful first step.
But it is only the first step.
"You can Google your love language in 30 seconds. What you cannot Google is what it means for your life, your healing, and your next chapter."
In ten-plus years of coaching midlife women through transition, we have seen this pattern over and over. A woman discovers her love language, feels that little spark of recognition — and then nothing changes. The insight fades. Life moves on.
Because knowing what your love language is and knowing what to do with it are two very different things.
Free love language content online gives you a definition. What you actually need are the tools, skills, and emotional intelligence to apply it — in your relationships, your communication, and the life you are rebuilding right now.
That is exactly what we built.
What makes our report different
Most love language content was written for couples in active relationships. That is not your life right now. This report was written specifically for you.
Written for your chapter
Not for couples. Not for generic self-help readers. For midlife women who are rebuilding, healing, and figuring out who they are and what they truly need.
Deeper than a definition
We explore what your love language means for your emotional patterns, your communication style, your past relationships, and your path forward — not just a paragraph of explanation.
Practical, not theoretical
Packed with tools for communication and emotional intelligence you can actually use — skills for expressing your needs, recognising healthy love, and understanding yourself more clearly.
Built for rebuilding
Every section was written with the experience of transition in mind — separation, divorce, loss, or simply a life that needs reinventing. We understand this chapter intimately.
Expertly authored
Seventeen pages of thoughtful, compassionate, personalised insight written by qualified coaches with over a decade of experience supporting women through exactly this life stage.
Written by real experts, for real women
Not AI-generated. Not a generic quiz printout. Written by Fiona May and Sandra Lee, co-founders of Women On Transition — Australia's leading divorce recovery and life transition coaching practice.
What's inside your personalised report
17 pages written specifically for your love language and your chapter of life.
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A deep exploration of what your love language really means — not just the definition, but what it reveals about how you are genuinely wired for love and connection.
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Why your past relationships felt the way they did — explained through the lens of your love language, without blame, without shame, and with a great deal of compassion.
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Emotional intelligence tools to communicate your needs clearly and confidently, without feeling needy, demanding, or "too much."
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What healthy, reciprocal love looks like for your love language — so you can recognise it when it shows up, and stop settling for less.
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Green flags and red flags in new relationships that matter most to someone with your love language.
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How to fill your own cup — practical ways to nurture yourself in the way you most need, especially during this chapter when romantic love may not be present.
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What your love language means for friendships and family — not just romantic relationships. Connection in all its forms.
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A forward-looking section on rebuilding — how to use this understanding to attract relationships that truly nourish you, and show up differently in the chapter ahead.
17 pages. Written just for you. Delivered instantly to your inbox.
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17 pages of expert, compassionate, personalised insight — written by Fiona May and Sandra Lee, specifically for women navigating this chapter of life.
Less than a counselling session. Less than a coffee date.
And this stays with you.
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This report is for you if...
- You have just come out of a long-term relationship and want to understand what you truly need going forward.
- You have been single for a while and keep wondering why the same patterns keep showing up.
- You are open to dating again but want to go in with more self-awareness and clarity.
- You have always felt your emotional needs were "too much" — and you are ready to understand them instead of apologise for them.
- You want to build deeper, more nourishing friendships and connections in this chapter of your life.
- You are simply ready to understand yourself better, and to use that understanding to build something beautiful.
Questions? We have answers.
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